A horse doesn’t know much about arguments until humans teach him. When it comes to equine
relationships, things generally sort out pretty quickly. A horse makes his point, and everyone goes back to eating. Horses don’t nag each other, but a human nagging or arguing with a horse creates a resentful, shut down, aggressive, dull or argumentative horse.
Do you argue with your horse? Do you let them push you? There’s a nice place in between where you can direct without arguing, and seek peace without being pushed.